Episode Summary
In episode four of Live Sturdy Conversations, Davies and Keith dig into the topic of technology’s overwhelming influence on both parenting and education. Keith clarifies that he supports technology but emphasizes the need to be discerning in its use, challenging myths about its role in education and entertainment. Davies and Keith examine specific myths, such as the belief that technology is inherently beneficial for children’s education and the misconception that limiting early technology use results in excessive indulgence in adulthood. Keith references studies on how early exposure to technology affects mental health and addiction patterns, highlighting the importance of being mindful of technology engagement. He also proposes the idea of gradually introducing technology in a controlled manner, aiming to foster healthy lifestyle habits and relationships, and planning a segment on practical strategies for implementing this balanced approach.
Davies and Keith discuss practical challenges and solutions for managing technology use among children and teenagers, particularly within educational environments. Keith proposes the idea of creating a plan or pledge for families and schools to follow to help mitigate the negative impacts of early and excessive technology use. He suggests waiting until children are around sixteen before introducing them to personal technology like iPhones, iPads, etc., citing the lack of proven benefits and potential issues it may pose. For families already immersed in technology, Keith recommends implementing restrictions such as no technology in bedrooms and establishing tech curfews. He also introduces the concept of ‘No Tech Tuesdays’ as a strategy for families to prioritize real-life interactions over technology, fostering stronger family bonds. Moreover, Keith emphasizes the need to address the impact of social media on students, highlighting the increasing rates of anxiety and depression associated with its usage. He challenges students to reduce screen time and even to try going completely ‘dark’ from technology for short periods, emphasizing the importance of community support in these endeavors.
We must be mindful of our technology use and nurture in-person relationships and experiences over digital interactions, aiming for a more balanced and meaningful engagement with technology, and the world around us!
About Keith McCurdy
Keith McCurdy is a licensed counselor and family therapist with over 30 years of experience. As a parenting educator and consultant, he provides coaching nationally on relationships, parenting, and leadership. Keith offers customized programs like ‘Raising Sturdy Kids’ for schools and parents. With degrees from James Madison University, he leads Live Sturdy, LLC, and Total Life Counseling, Inc. He has spoken at various institutions and served as Chairman of the Board at Faith Christian School. Keith’s focus remains on promoting healthy family dynamics and addressing the impact of psychology on morality. He enjoys outdoor activities and reside in the scenic Roanoke Valley with his wife.